Meet Your New South Milwaukee High School Football Coach: Dylian Nimmer

Photo from St. Norbert College

From an email sent by Athletics and Activities Director Ante Udovicic to South Milwaukee School District parents on Sunday …

Dear South Milwaukee Community, 

We are excited to announce a new chapter in South Milwaukee’s football program. Please join us in welcoming Dylian Nimmer as our new head football coach. Coach Nimmer brings a wealth of experience and passion for the game, and we are confident that he will be a great leader for our student-athletes.

Coach Nimmer has 10 years of coaching experience, including as an assistant coach at St. Norbert College, the University of Minnesota, UW-Oshkosh, and UNLV. His dedication to building strong, disciplined teams and developing student-athletes both on and off the field is exactly what we were looking for in a coach.

Nimmer, who lives in Waukesha, also has deep local ties and played against South Milwaukee as a Baby Redcat. In the short term, Coach Nimmer will meet with his coaching staff and with the team after school this week. He is excited to meet the team and begin off-season workouts with the team and planning summer contact days, 7 on 7s and ultimately a successful 2025 football season. 

In addition to his coaching expertise, Coach Nimmer is deeply committed to fostering a positive, supportive team environment and believes in the importance of teamwork, character development, and hard work.

Thank you to the search committee members for their work in reviewing candidates for this position and for your continued support of our athletics program!

Congratulations, and welcome to South Milwaukee, Coach Nimmer!

And a deep and heartfelt thank you to Coach Pete Dufek, who served in that position for five seasons, guiding the program through the pandemic and making a lasting impact on many young lives during difficult times. Thank you for your continued hard work on behalf of Rocket student-athletes, Pete.

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1 Injured, 8 Displaced in South Milwaukee Fire

UPDATE: The South Milwaukee Fire Department Facebook page has more details on the fire.

https://www.facebook.com/share/1Kr2Mqiv41/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Check out coverage from TMJ4 and WISN — and please keep these families in your prayers.

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Headlines: Downtown South Milwaukee Sculpture, Aurora Clinic Closures, and More

From local media outlets …

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Introducing Shelby’s Banned Book Reviews: “The Perks of Being a Wallflower”

I am proud to offer this space to my daughter, Shelby, who will be writing series of book reviews of banned books. Get in some good trouble, kid!

According to PEN America, over 10,000 books were banned in public schools during the 2023-2024 school year as compared to the previous year with 3,362. This is not the first time that books have become political. Shakespeare faced censorship from Queen Elizabeth I in the year 1601, and New English Canaan by Thomas Morton was banned in 1637, as it was harshly critical of the puritans genocide of the Indegenous population. Nazi Germany burned over 100 million books across Europe by the end of WWII. 

Nowadays, books are challenged for a plethora of reasons. The most prominent reason for bannings is the inclusion of sexual content or offensive language, but the options are endless. Books with LGBTQ+ content have recently come under scrutiny, as well as books containing violence, abortion, suicide, mental health issues, or religious viewpoints. LGBTQ+ and BIPOC voices are disproportionately targeted with book bannings.

For a country that claims to stand for freedom, censorship is not the answer. The most essential part of humanity is learning from our mistakes in history, and banning books with unique viewpoints completely erases marginalized voices. This severely limits and damages the education of our future generations.

From a young age, my parents taught me that when I see something I don’t like, I should resist. With more and more books being challenged every year, I know that this is something I am ready and willing to fight. Diverse literature is necessary for a thriving young generation and generally educated population. Hearing from different voices in literature is how we come to an understanding of different viewpoints. 

So, with resistance in mind and freedom driving me, I will write reviews on banned books. I will recognize why they’re being challenged, explain how the story is necessary to hear, and analyze complex characters and themes that we can all relate to. Through this series of reviews, I hope we can learn to include rather than exclude. 

As Oscar Wilde wrote in The Picture of Dorian Gray, “The books that the world calls immoral are books that show its own shame.” 


Book Review #1: The Perks of Being a Wallflower

The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky was first banned way back in 2003 in Fairfax, Virginia by a group called Parents Against Bad Books in Schools. This was only four years after it was published in 1999. Since then it has been heavily targeted by book banning efforts, mostly due to it’s themes of drugs use, childhood incest, homosexuality, and profanity. From 2002 to 2010 it was banned publicly eleven times, and it’s only gotten more controversial with the passage of time, as it was challenged 68 times in 2023. 

This novel is set in the 1990s, following quiet, awkward, but deeply kind Charlie, a freshman in high school. As Charlie navigates through a complicated year, the reader gets to learn and grow with him as he overcomes his anxiety and PTSD.

The plotline of Charlie’s older sister shows an abusive high school relationship. At the beginning of the book, Charlie’s sister’s boyfriend hits Charlie’s sister in secret, with Charlie being the only person to witness it. Charlie is shocked by his sister’s reaction or lack thereof. He comments on the fact that his sister is a feminist and has a strongly opinionated personality, but when faced with violence from a lover, she freezes and takes it. This also shows a parallel to Charlie’s mother, who is a much more passive type of person. 

Make no mistake, a woman being beaten by her boyfriend is not just a product of this time in history, as domestic abuse is still a very prevalent issue today. According to the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, 1 in 3 teens in the US are victims of teen dating violence, whether that be physical, sexual, verbal, or emotional abuse. This portrayal is undeniably raw, as Charlie’s sister still wants to stay with her boyfriend even after he’d hit her, showing a cycle of abuse. 

As Charlie becomes close with Patrick, it’s safe to assume that Patrick and Brad’s queer relationship serves as a large point of controversy in this novel, though it really should be anything but. I’m a huge advocate for queer representation in all types of media, but the representation doesn’t really mean anything unless it feels truly real. I can see myself in parts of Patrick and Brad’s relationship. I deeply understand the fear of coming out, but the sense of community that being queer brings to you. 

Later in the story, Brad falls victim to peer pressure, child abuse, and what I like to call Closet Case Syndrome. His father accidentally walks in on Patrick and Brad, and he proceeds to beat Brad unconscious. A few days later, when Patrick attempts to talk to Brad in school, Brad calls him a homophobic slur twice, and a brawl ensues. Charlie luckily comes to the defense of Patrick. I think the most engaging part of Patrick and Brad’s plotline comes just after this, when Brad directly thanks Charlie for jumping to defend Patrick. This shows that Brad still deeply cares for Patrick and knows what he said was wrong.

LGBTQ+ teens are far more likely to experience child abuse from family members and bullying from peers. The stigma around homosexuality is debilitating at times, also leading to a much higher risk for suicide for LGBTQ+ youth. While Patrick and Brad don’t have an entirely healthy relationship, they serve as a harsh reality check for the horrors LGBTQ+ people face. This representation is necessary because of just how realistic it is.

Charlie’s grandfather has a relatively minor role in the book, but he is a very compelling character when you look beneath the surface. I read this book for the first time years ago, and I remember writing his character off as a racist small-minded old white guy, but I’m beginning to see just how complex he really is. Charlie’s grandpa had to work very hard as a teenager, and his endless work eventually paid off as he got to make a better future for his two daughters. One day, when his daughters come home with C’s on their report cards, he beats them as a warning to improve their grades. While this is definitely harsh and unnecessarily violent, it’s also understandable. While Charlie’s grandfather’s childhood cannot be seen as an excuse, it’s a perfect explanation.

People are not just black and white, and Charlie’s grandfather is a direct representation of that. He can be classified as abusive considering he beat his daughters, but in his mind, he was doing it so they would improve their grades and have a better future. Humanity is complex and violent and beautiful, and the first step we can take towards a better future is understanding people who are different from us.

This book is one of my favorites ever because every character just feels so real. Seriously, I know I’m going to go to school tomorrow and see half of these characters in the hallway, dealing with the same struggles. In an interview in 2013, Stephen Chbosky claimed, “For many kids, the book helped end a sense of isolation. It ended the idea that they were all alone in what they were going through, whether they were gay and they thought they were going to be punished for that, or if they were struggling with mental illness or depression and they thought that it never gets better. Charlie’s struggles, and his friends’ struggles, speak directly to those experiences.” 

Banning The Perks of Being a Wallflower silences a million different voices, but more than anything, it erases the sense of hope that this book brings you. Hope for a better future, where you can feel safe to come out, overcome abusive relationships, and give your children a better future. 

At the very end of the book, Charlie reflects on this past year and all that he’s learned, encouraging the readers that our obstacles don’t define us. He states, “I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we’ll never know most of them. But even if we don’t have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.” 

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You Can Now Pay Your Water Bill Online

From the City of South Milwaukee …

Exciting News for South Milwaukee Water Customers! 

We’re thrilled to introduce a new and improved water invoice! Starting this month, you’ll notice an updated design with clearer details, making it easier to manage your account.

Convenient Online Payments: You can now pay your bill, view your payment history, and manage your account anytime, anywhere via our new portal: https://bit.ly/SMWUConnect.

These new invoices will be rolled out gradually over the next couple of months, as South Milwaukee has 4 different billing cycles. So, keep an eye out for yours! 

I am happy to see this, and I hope to see more opportunities like this.

Governments aren’t businesses, but they can all do better to be more customer-friendly … and rate and taxpayers need to be treated like customers. Electronic payments have been the norm for years — decades? — and it’s time for governments to catch up. I am glad we are.

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The Future of This Blog

I launched this website 15 years ago with a vision to engage the South Milwaukee community on local news and information they couldn’t get anywhere else, packaged in the way I package it.

1.8 milllion views, 600,000 visitors, and more than 4,000 posts later, I’ve been thinking a lot about what’s next for this platform, especially at this point in my life and at this point in history.

My conclusion: It’s time for a new approach. Now, more than ever.

What won’t change: A focus on local news and information. I will still do my best to keep South Milwaukeeans informed on key issues, from city and schools news to election coverage to items on local sports, business and people. For example, look for updates on the Mill Pond Dam this week, and local candidate profiles in February. I will also still seek to provide the most comprehensive list of local events in the city, as I have done since I relaunched the blog in 2023.

At the same time, I have shit to say and the platform to say it. So I will use it.

Especially now, at a time in our history when our president chooses to spend his first week back in office grabbing power for the executive branch, attacking his perceived enemies, settling old scores, targeting our most vulnerable, rewarding his loyalists, and further dividing our country … from pardoning cop beaters to unilaterally pausing federal grant funding (for a day) to threatening to make federal disaster aid conditional on political aims to choosing to blame DEI and the past administration for the Washington D.C. helicopter-plane crash 12 hours after it happened.

It’s shock and awe, and it’s shameful. And I can’t stay silent on it.

You can expect more opinion on these pages as we go forward, as I share viewpoints on world, national, state, county and local issues I find important — both my own words and others, including my daughter. “Shelby’s Banned Book Reviews” debuts this week.

Heck, I may even throw in a few hot Brewers takes.

You will be able to access this content under Viewpoints in the menu bar.

Almost 1,000 people subscribe to this blog, and if you don’t like this approach, or if you’re not comfortable reading views that might challenge your own, please unsubscribe. No hard feelings. If you’re OK with it, please keep reading and tell others to subscribe.

Thanks for joining me on this journey. Here’s to another 15 years.

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It’s Back! Crusherfest Returns to South Milwaukee May 31-June 1, 2025

From the Crusherfest Facebook page

Crusherfest returns on Saturday, May 31st thru Sunday, June 1st at Crusherfest Park in South Milwaukee. Meet & Greet your favorite pro wrestling superstars and watch some LIVE pro wrestling. Live Music. Food Trucks. Cold Beer. Stay tuned for more information.

Stay up to date on all major local events on my Events page.

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MOVE 2025: Proposed MCTS Service Changes Could Impact South Milwaukee

From RideMCTS.com

What is MOVE 2025?

We’re putting our Fall 2025 service changes in your hands. This is your system. Your ride. So, it’s your choice. We’ll provide the options, you’ll tell us what changes work best for you. Here’s your chance to tell us where you’d like to see improvements, and what trade-offs you’re willing to make to get you where you’re going. 

Why does MOVE 2025 need my input?

We’ve been listening to your feedback: some riders want more frequent service. Others want more coverage. Bus operators see ways to make their routes more reliable. Businesses would like changes that benefit their employees. Add to that new housing developments, entertainment hot spots, and changing traffic patterns, plus our incredibly detailed analytics on all things bus, and you’ll understand why we need your help! There are dozens of ways MCTS can make changes while staying within our budget. We have come up with several different route ideas but we need to hear from you: which of these options matter most.

How do I weigh in on MOVE 2025?

  • The first opportunity to give feedback is at one of our 5 community meetings. (Two remain as of this writing — January 25 in West Milwaukee and February 4 in Milwaukee.)
  • Can’t make it to a public meeting but still want to provide feedback? Please respond to the survey link here to shape your route.

Two options in the survey impact South Milwaukee directly, including (according to MCTS) …

  • Route 52: These options come from rider feedback. Riders have told us they want Route 52 to serve more destinations on each end of the route. As the route extends, buses will come less often.
  • Route 59: This option comes from rider feedback. Riders have told us, “MCTS needs more east-west connectivity on the southern end of the county.” The farther the route extends, the less often buses will come.

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South Milwaukee Adopt a Tree: Sign Up Now

I’m excited to see South Milwaukeee remain committed to its Adopt-a-Tree program. Hundreds have been planted since it was launched — and we have a long ways to go.

From the city website and Facebook page

The City of South Milwaukee, proudly designated as a Tree City USA since 2019, is excited to offer the Adopt-a-Tree Program. This program provides residents with a unique opportunity to enhance their neighborhood, support our urban forest, and make a lasting environmental impact. By adopting a tree, you’ll contribute to the beauty and health of our city while helping to create a greener future for all.

How it works:

  • Apply to the program on our website: https://bit.ly/SMAdoptATree
  • Commit to watering and care for the first two years.
  • Watch it thrive and enjoy knowing you’ve made a difference!

Sign up today to secure your spot! Let’s plant hope this winter for a greener tomorrow!

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For the Love of Animals: RIP, the Fearless and Unstoppable Dr. Carol (SMHS Class of 1950)

I came across this obituary of a former South Milwaukeean today, and I love it. I’m happy to share it here, and ask you to share it too.

From it …

The Fearless and Unstoppable Dr. Carol.

Dr. Carol B Whitmoyer DVM age 92 of Boulder City, NV passed away peacefully on December, 22 2024 in Henderson NV. Carol was born in South Milwaukee, WI to Horace and Helen Brien Beitzel. From a very young age, Carol knew she wanted to be a veterinarian. Carol graduated from South Milwaukee High School with honors in 1950. Instead of doing the norm for the time and becoming a homemaker, Carol pursued her veterinary dreams, earning her bachelor’s degree in 1954 from Michigan State College and her Doctorate in Veterinary Medicine from Michigan State University in 1956. She was the only woman in her class and the first woman to receive her full Doctorate in Veterinary Medicine from Michigan State University.

After college Carol lived in Kansas, Florida Everglades and Utah before moving to Boulder City, NV in 1962. That same year “Dr. Carol” opened her practice, Boulder Animal Hospital. She was a founding board member of the Clark County Health District (now known as Southern Nevada Health District). In November, 1962 Carol adopted her son Paul and In September of 1963 adopted her son, Danny.

For 38 years Dr. Carol was Boulder City’s veterinarian and 30 of those years she was the only veterinarian. Dr. Carol loved being a veterinarian! It was her passion from childhood. She loved animals and would do whatever it took to help them and their owners in a time of need.

In the early years, Dr. Carol did both large and small animals in her practice. She took care of any animal in need of help even taking care of some exotics from snakes to orangutans and even a baby elephant. Carol spent a lot of time at the corrals riding her horses and taking care of their, and everyone else’s veterinary needs until large animal specialist veterinarian became available. She then switched her practice to small animals.

She considered herself very fortunate to have an occupation that she loved so much!

Dr. Carol was always up for an adventure! Her love for the outdoors and traveling is well-known. From week long backpack trips in the backcountry of Yosemite when her family was young, to canoe trips in the Boundary Waters and Yellowstone, or wherever else she could paddle a canoe. It’s hard to count how many white-water river trips she took down the Green, Colorado River through the Grand Canyon and so many more, many of them rowing or paddling her own boat. Dr. Carol was an avid scuba diver until her late 70s. She would do live aboard dive boats for a week (before they were even popular) and dove a lot of the top dive spots in the world.

She loved gardening and her backyard showed it. Photography was another passion. She had some of her flower photos published in a Southwest desert wildflower book. One of her many adventures was hiking coast to coast across England with her sisters, Helen, Sally and brother-in-law, Ron.

Dr. Carol retired in 2000 and instead of slowing down she turned it up! She continued to do more of everything. She was away more than she was home. She was off on African photos safaris, more diving, Hawaii, Europe, India, Costa Rica, Cayman Islands, Canada, Mexico, Australia, and so many more places, wherever else she thought she needed to see. People would ask not how is she, but where is she now? She ran the white water of the Pacuare river in Costa Rica along with an eight-stage zip line at age 85. Dr. Carol never passed on an adventure, even if she had to go by herself. She would always say, “do it while you can because you never know when you’re not going to be able to.” Words to live by!

Words to live by, indeed.

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Shepherd Express “Best Of”: South Milwaukee Well Represented Again

Small business in South Milwaukee is alive and well!

Here is proof: Local businesses were finalists in 18 different categories in the recently awarded “Shepherd Express Best Of” awards.

The full list follows. See all the finalists and winners here.

Congratulations to all of our local entrepreneurs!

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Thursday, January 16: Special Monthly Community Dinner Coming to Bucyrus Club

I love that this event has become a monthly tradition in our city … and that the Bucyrus Club is hosting the next one. Details below. Thank you, Ernie and Elyse Wunsch and team, First Congregational United Church of Christ, and all of the community partners who make this meal happen each month!

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Saturday: Celebrate 20 Years of South Milwaukee Musical Theatre at the PAC

This will be fun! Showtime is at 7 p.m. Saturday at the South Milwaukee Performing Arts Center.

Musical Theatre Cabaret: Celebrating 20 Years of Musical Theatre

Presented in celebration of our 20th Anniversary by South Milwaukee Performing Arts Center …

Join us for a musical stroll down memory lane since the first South Milwaukee high school production, Oklahoma! was performed here in 2005. You’ll enjoy music from a variety of other shows such as selections from Grease, Fame, Bye Bye Birdie, Hairspray, In the Heights, Fly by Night, The Sound of Music and the most recent 2024 production of Legally Blonde. You may even see some folks you recognize, as we proudly welcome back SMHS performing arts alumni for this cast. Some of these actors have been away for decades, while others graduated just a year ago. They all have a passion for musical theatre and can’t wait to perform for you!

This 20th anniversary Musical Theatre Cabaret stands to be the largest musical bonanza staged here by our alumni and students, and is designed to pay tribute to our community’s long-standing tradition of excellence in high school musical theatre. This show is produced by the talented and fearless SMHS Theatre Director, Tim Backes, and is sponsored by the SMPAC Council, a 501c3 organization.

Learn more (and reminisce) at the South Milwaukee High School Theatre Company Facebook page.

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Spring Election in South Milwaukee: Who is on the Ballot?

Contested races for South Milwaukee School Board and South Milwaukee Municipal Judge highlight the local ballot for this spring’s election.

Election Day is April 1. Also on the ballot is the race for Wisconsin Supreme Court. Locally, here is what you will see …

South Milwaukee School Board

Four candidates for two seats, with incumbent David Maass choosing not to run for a new term. Thanks for your service, Dave!

  • Steve Hansen
  • William Sakalaucks
  • Matthew Scales
  • Sophia Williams (I)

South Milwaukee Municipal Judge

Two candidates for one seat.

  • Kelly A. Martyka (I)
  • Megan Zienkiewicz

More details on our local elections here.

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From the Library Friends: Free Passes to Area Attractions, January 16 Social, and Soul Music!

From my friends at the Friends of the South Milwaukee Library …

New Betty Brinn Children’s Museum Pass Added to Library’s Free Pass Collection

Patrons at South MIlwaukee Public Library can check out a three-day pass to visit local attractions for free. Explorer passes include:

  • Betty Brinn Children’s Museum
  • Harley Davidson Museum
  • Milwaukee Art Museum
  • MItchell Park Domes
  • Schlitz Audubon Nature Center

Passes are first come, first served and may not be held.

Friends of the Library Social Set for January 16

Soul Music Celebration at the Library for Black History Month

This is an event that deserves a larger audience than we have been attracting. It feels like watching an intimate jam session with a bunch of very talented friends. They will cover a variety of soul styles including Windy City Soul, Classic Soul and Southern (Chitli’ Circuit) Soul.

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