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Mary C. Nelson

A big part of the reason why I wanted to contribute to this blog is to connect with people and listen to their stories. I was having a very late spring South Milwaukee Day, deciding if it was going to be freezing or boiling at the little league fields. I was talking to the other parents, with varying degrees of their own histories in South Milwaukee, when a friend of mine mentioned her grandmother was turning 100 years old that upcoming weekend. While I listened to a little bit of history from her granddaughter, Jessie, I was invited to hear the stories from her grandmother herself.

I was nervous walking into Mary C. Nelson’s house, however that nervousness melted away almost immediately. Mary was surrounded by family, friends, pictures of moments and memories, as well as art that Mary had created over the years. For those of you who do not know this name, Mary C. Nelson has had an incredible impact on this community and I’d like to share parts of her story.

Mary was originally born in Minnesota to a single mom in 1926. Due to her mom being a single mother, Mary grew up with her grandparents in Northfield MN. She remembers having a great relationship with her grandparents and enjoyed the area she grew up in. Across the street from Mary was another girl, also named Mary, who she is still friends with to this day. Both Mary’s were raised by their grandparents, found this to be a powerful connector. Mary went to parochial school while living with her grandparents and talked about being ‘too intelligent’ or ‘too much trouble’. It was very easy to conversational winding paths with Mary as she has an incredible sense of humor.

As Mary’s grandparents were aging, it was decided for her that her aunt would take over care for her which landed her in Wisconsin. Mary graduated from high school at the age of 16. She says it’s because she was again ‘too smart’ or ‘too much trouble’ for her to stay. Mary met her husband at Wisconsin State Teachers College (UWM) and married in ’47. Story has it that she saw her husband in the cafeteria. One had an ice cream cone and one had a pickle. Mary said she found him so cute that she asked him to trade, in which he agreed, and their story began. her husband was in the service and operated as an air traffic controller. She moved with him from Wisconsin to Cleveland, Gary, and then Chicago. Mary said this part of her life was difficult due to having children, resettling in new places and the lack of support that comes with raising a family.

Mary and her family then began their journey here in South Milwaukee. When asked why South Milwaukee, Mary said it was a ‘typical American small community’. Mary was a journalist. I hope she does not read my writing as she may have some thoughts. She said she enjoyed her job but wanted to do more. Mary decided to run for Alderperson and became South Milwaukee’s first female Alderperson. While not consecutive, Mary ran for a total of 15 years. Mary shared many challenges of being a woman on the common council. Mary’s passion was clear in the many forms of correspondence she shared with me during our time together. Mary really believed in beautification of South Milwaukee. Through organizing the South Milwaukee Woman’s Club, Mary, alongside many other women, planted the Mary C. Nelson Arboretum located just west of the little league fields. Mary also pushed for a corner on Chicago and Milwaukee to become beautified so that people can appreciate the downtown. Mary thought that the Northwestern corner was a perfect spot due to the juxtaposition of the Bucyrus industrial complex and the downtown area. Mary also helped organize and run the efforts to save the Mill Pond.

While discussing Mary’s extensive community engagement, Mary’s passion for writing, the arts, and her family were ever present. Mary has 6 children, 15 grandchildren, and 14 great-grandchildren. Mary’s family shared stories of her writing plays for her grandchildren to perform and shared original drafts of two children’s books she created for her grandchildren. Mary wrote many short stories and shared with me many paintings. I felt a deep connection to Mary’s persistence of seeking balance. As a mom and artist myself, I felt deeply connected to the struggles Mary shared of balancing it all. I asked Mary what she would recommend to others looking to live until 100. Mary said “focus on the simple things that make people happy, don’t insult others, and be kind because we’re all in the same boat”. Mary said that her engagement in South Milwaukee was because of all of the different types of people that she was able to meet and come together to form this community.

This same day, I was fortunate enough to hold a baby that came home from the hospital for the very first time. This day left me incredibly sentimental and honored for all human moments I get to experience and motivates me to connect to more community members. I hope I get to gather with Mary many more times and experience the love, light, wisdom, and humor that Mary brings to this world.

“I wanted to give a little comment about my grandma who is turning 100. A South Milwaukee legend. Mary Nelson. The past few years we have been revamping her birthday banner to represent her new age each year. 97, 98, 99. (A little paint and duct tape goes a long way to adjust the numbers.) On her 99th birthday she said with a mouth full of laughter “what are you cheap people going to do when I turn 100?!” She is still so full of wit and still makes the entire room laugh. We love you Grandma.” -Haley Smith

Written by Tory Elliott

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J. Howard Offutt

I don’t know how to express the pride I feel when I get to learn something from individuals who are younger than I. I feel so proud of a group of our students who are working on a production honoring an important historical firgure from right here in Milwaukee that is rarely discussed. While I have not had the privlege of knowing this person prior to this event, I am so proud of our high school students for engaging in important work and collaborations including with the Wisconsin Black History Museum.

While not oringinally from Wisconsin, J. Howard Offutt was born on July 9Th in Glencoe IL, an integrated community of German and Italian immigrants. While in school, he studied voice, violin, and piano. While in the army band, he learned saxophone in just two weeks and traveled with the American Syncopated Orchestra. While in the army, he was injured and continued to play music as this was incredibly important. J.Howard Offutt adcocated for sponsorship from the Red Cross to play music to other wounded soldiers.

Post military, J. Howard Offutt traveled to France to continue to study violin which led him to the National University of Music in Chicago. Upon graduation, J. Howard Offutt became Professor J. Howard Offutt teaching violin and eventually establishing his own studio.

What has not yet been mentioned is the time in which Professor J. Howard Offutt lived. He lived from 1892-1986. Professor J. Howard Offutt provided care and service to his community through the great depression, World War II, and the Civil Rights Movement. Professor J. Howard Offutt’s work in Milwaukee began in 1930 at St. Mark’s Church. While he was not making a salary, he founded the gendered groups of the Young People’s Chorus. Professor J. Howard Offutt moved the communities he worked with towards activism using one hour of the Sunday morning services to write letters to legislation. Ouffutt created Wisconsin’s first racially integrated Youth Chorus performing in front of key figures including Dr. Martin Luther King Jr when he was at UWM in 1965.

While I would like to continue to learn more about the incredibly important figures without our history, I feel such pride getting to earn this from our students. I am excited to see this group of students perform on the 14th, which ha been a culmination of research, including connecting with one of Offutt’s former students, and performing music so deeply meaningfull. I am proud to have gotten to learn a little more as a result of the community’s children’s wisdom.

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Earth week: MARM Farm

I hope you all are participating and enjoying Earth Week Bingo! I can’t wait to see pictures submitted throughout the week and to see the most unique trash you find for the possibility of incorporating it into our trophy!

For this week, we wanted to highlight buisnesses and projects that are going on here in South Milwaukee that promote community wellness through environmental sustainability. I reached out to Ellen from MARM Farm to give us an update on what has been going on. For those of you who may not be familiar, The MARM Farm is a small-scale urban farm dedicated to regenerative practices and organic growing right here in south milwaukee. They focus on education and conservation, providing fresh produce for pay-as-you-can farmstand while teaching the community about the benefits of urban farming and sustainable living.

Celebrating Earth Week, we are excited to share that The MARM Farm Education and Conservation Center is officially open and thriving! We’ve just begun our in-ground planting season, and our greenhouse will soon be bustling with microgreens, offering fresh greens for our community. Our pay-as-you-can farmstand will be returning this year, making fresh, healthy produce accessible to everyone. Follow us on social media for the latest updates and upcoming events!

In addition to our traditional farm activities, we’re proud to introduce the debut of the SCUGU (Self-Contained Urban Growing Unit). This innovative 40-foot shipping container is now located at the north end of the municipal building parking lot. Over the next few months, we’ll be converting the interior for hydroponic and mushroom growing. Half of everything cultivated in the SCUGU will be donated to Human Concerns, supporting local food security, while the other half will be available for sale within our community. This project was made possible through last year’s Bucyrus grant funding.

Additionally, MARM Farm has partnered with a few of our schools this week in celebration of Earth Day and Arbor Day. For Earth Day, MARM Farm partnered with Blakewood Elementary to beautify the school grounds, learn about native plants, held a recycling drive, and talked about garden preparation. In celebration of Arbor Day, we will be partnering with the City Street Department to engage all 4th graders in the school district. Students will gather at the Mary C. Nelson Arboretum for an agroforestry scavenger hunt and learn about the importance of native trees and urban canopy. Each student will take home a tree seedling to plant at home, and the street department will plant a new tree at the arboretum, helping to grow a greener, healthier South Milwaukee.

You can learn more about the MARM Farm through their website https://www.forfarmersmovement.com/team/the-marm-farm-(milwaukee-area-renewal-movement) or on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/MarmFarmMilwaukee. They also send out a newsletter regularly that you can sign up for.

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Earth Week Bingo

Hello fellow South Milwaukeans!

I am so excited to announce a branch of Strong Towns Milwaukee focused on taking care of our community in a much needed way! A group of us came together to form the first (hopefully annual) Earth Week Bingo!

The week will begin on 4/18/2026 and end on 4/26/2026! There are a variety of activities that will we be asking you to do throughout the week if you decide to participate! You can do this individually or with family, friends, or heck a big group! Each bingo will get you entered into a drawing to win from a variety of gift cards from our local businesses. In order to be considered for the drawing, winners must be prepared to show photos. We will also be making an up-cycled ‘trashiest trophy’ with items that you have collected throughout the week! We would love to incorporate a single piece of trash that you find most interesting in the trophy! Bingo card are available here on this post, on a variety of social media platforms, as well as in person at several businesses located throughout our community!

Winners will be announced on May 2nd and prizes will be given out at the next Strong Towns meeting on May 7th at Virtue and Valor! You do not have to be in person at this meeting, however the announced winners will get to choose from a variety of gift cards, whereas if you are not able to make the meeting but win, you may be given a prize at random!

We hope that this is the beginning of a strong and passionate group of people who are interested in caring for our community! Below is the Bingo Card, as well as our first collaborative post with the Friends of Grant Park about the first Grant Park Beach clean up! We are so excited to participate in community in this way and I can’t wait to start seeing pictures of neighbors caring for our community as I know many of you already do!

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The student walk out

There was a lot to say about the walk out that occurred on Friday January 30th as many other schools were doing the same. Some community members were in support, as reflected in the post below, and some community members were outraged. I wanted to hear the perspective of the students who were organizing the protest. Below is the response:

“When the idea for a walkout protesting ICE first came about, I was all the way across the country in Ithaca, New York, flying back from a college audition. My flight had already been delayed by a day and a half, and I was desperate to get home. Then my good friend and fellow student activist, Miles, texted me—and I immediately knew this week was going to be insane.

Make no mistake: I am a rule follower above all else. I am a straight-A student (except for freshman-year accelerated biology—my only B+, which I still think about all the time), and I have literally never been grounded. I hate disappointing people more than anything, so the idea of organizing a walkout terrified me. I didn’t want to do something that could end up on my permanent record. As those fears built, I thought back to AP Government and Politics, where we learned about the First Amendment.

Freedom of speech applies to all people, regardless of age.

That is a sentence I repeated close to a hundred times this past week when peers came to me afraid of possible repercussions for walking out. Let it be known: I went about this the right way. I met with the principal and superintendent on Wednesday morning, two days before the protest, and emailed the chief of police that night to inform him of our exact route and timing. I created a group chat with the main student organizers and made sure everyone felt heard and respected.

I know many people will believe what they want to believe about our protest, but I want to clear a few things up. No, teachers did not organize it—the entire event was student-led. No, we did not “force” anyone to participate. Over 600 high school students chose not to walk out, and they are not being judged for that. And my personal favorite: no, I am not a “groomer” or a “pedophile.” I turned eighteen in November, I am still in high school, and I believe my supporters can speak to my character.

I was shocked by the level of support our protest received. A group of mothers followed us the entire way, providing hot chocolate, water, snacks, blankets, and hand warmers, all supplied through collected donations. Community members marched alongside us. A local church opened its doors as snow poured down so students could warm up and use the bathroom. Middle schoolers bravely joined us. We were covered by two news stations, Telemundo and TMJ4. In the days leading up to the walkout, people asked how many students I expected to attend. I usually said 50—and even that felt like wishful thinking. I would have marched even if it were just a small group of my theater friends. Imagine my surprise when the count exceeded 300.

The most common belief among those who opposed our walkout was that we “didn’t know what we were talking about,” which I find to be the weakest argument of all. We knew exactly what we were protesting. We were calling for an end to ICE’s reign of terror. Just because past generations may have felt disconnected from politics as teenagers does not give them the right to insult our intelligence. In an era where nearly every teen has a phone and social media, we are more informed and connected than ever. We see what is happening, and we have the right to speak out.

We left school at 12:30 p.m. on Friday, January 30, and met outside the tennis courts on 15th Avenue. Before we began, I laid out several ground rules using a megaphone:

  1. Stay on the sidewalk
  2. No swearing, middle fingers, or inappropriate behavior—we are peaceful
  3. Be respectful to all community members, whether they support us or not
  4. If you are dangerously cold, let someone know immediately

Once the march began, we walked along the parkway next to the high school, turned onto Oak Street, and then headed down North Chicago Avenue. Our destination was the corner of North Chicago and Pine, where we spread out along every visible stretch of sidewalk.

The protest lasted about two hours, until the school day ended. We chanted and held signs in 15-degree weather. At one point, the snow fell so hard that my once-multicolored scarf turned completely white. Still, I barely felt the cold. How could I, when the energy was so electric?

Our student organizers felt the same. “It felt very inspiring and uniting to see so many of my peers from such different walks of life coming together for this cause,” said Suzy, a junior.

Miles, who came up with the idea at 10:20 a.m. on Monday morning, expected “nobody but a few close friends to participate.” He shared, “It felt like, for the first time in my life, I truly had a voice.”

Addyson, a freshman, loved walking with a group of students “who shared the same passions and beliefs.” She said, “We advocated for the rights of human beings while staying genuine.”

As students, we are often told that we have a voice—only to be dismissed when we actually use it. I am not claiming that, at eighteen, I know more than someone with sixty years of life experience. But I do know something. In this case, I knew that what ICE is doing in Minneapolis and across the United States is wrong.

We were speaking up for our neighbors, our friends, and our families. We were speaking up for people across the country who may have come here illegally, but who still deserve a path to citizenship. We were speaking up for human beings.

Immigrants are not aliens. They are not “illegals.” They are not animals. They are people—human beings, just like everyone else. They do not deserve hatred fueled by blatant racism.

That is why we marched.

And for once, we were heard.”

Written by Shelby Brooks- one of the organizers of the walkout

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Lisa Pieper: From Facebook to Face-to-Face

While I am relatively new to South Milwaukee, one thing I have heard is that there are a lot of things people say about each other. This is controversially represented in the South Milwaukee Town Hall Facebook page. I looked to Facebook in order to figure out where I belonged in this new community of mine. I have heard wonderful things about this space as well as horrible things about this space. While not officially associated with the city of South Milwaukee, this Facebook page is moderated by an alderperson, Lisa Pieper, which has stirred up some controversy over the years. Lisa and I met at Better Together Coffee shop. I was admittedly nervous with the variety of different reactions and things that I have heard about Lisa. I wanted to sit with Lisa and discuss her history, feelings about South Milwaukee, and why she does what she does.

Lisa is the 3rd generation here in South Milwaukee. Lisa and her husband, married for almost 40 years, lived here their entire relationship. Lisa did not envision herself being in politics. Starting in retail management then Lisa then was given the opportunity to run the community center. Lisa talked about the history of the community center and discussed how she really enjoyed being connected to the community in that way. At the time, the community center was a non-profit and as many people who may work in the non profit world, money is always tight. The building was heated using steam from the Bucyrus factory. After the factory updated, the heat no longer was supplied to the community center. According to Lisa, after this shift, to heat the building would have cost upwards of six thousand dollars. The community center became sadly unfeasible.

Lisa found herself wondering what was next. From Lisa’s experiences with the community center, Lisa decided to run for common council. Lisa said at that time that she missed working with people of the city and wanted to find a way to return to that work. Lisa ran against an incumbent and won. Lisa has been on the council since. Lisa talked about the various experiences being on the council, including often being the only woman and receiving death and physical harm threats to her home. Lisa said that she has always felt protected by her husband. Lisa stated that she often times feels as though she is a whistle blower and stated that she is ready to call out what she sees as ‘bullshit’. Lisa has seen the city through various changes and has felt deceived by some referendums that make her feel warry of others. Lisa’s husband and life partner sadly passed three years ago and has changed how safe and ‘sassy’ she feels being on the council.

I asked Lisa, “why are you still doing what you’re doing?”. Lisa said she loves South Milwaukee. I do see this in the way she posts about emergencies and the way she makes connections with her constituents to ensure their safety. One person recalled to me that Lisa automatically reached out to her in the recent floods to make sure their family was staying ‘afloat’. Lisa said during our coffee together that she would like to see a number of projects through that she feels will improve the city. These projects include the library referendum, the senior center, and a viable grocery store.

I went into this interview thinking honestly I was going to be ‘ghosted’, however I found myself really enjoying my time. Maybe its the nature of my job (therapist), but I really felt like what I took away from this is that we need to sit down with one another- face to face- and talk about how we are feeling and what we need from one another. It is so much easier to sit in front of a keyboard and say things that we may not exactly mean. Lisa and I have dinner planned for another day and I genuinely hope that we can continue to sit down and talk through our wishes and wants for this amazing community. I feel encouraged to get more people together and I wonder what we could do within this city if we did sit face-to-face and get to know each other more often.

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