Jazz & More 2025: Get Your Tickets Now For a Special Night of South Milwaukee Student Music at the Bucyrus Club

The talent will blow you away. Bring familly and friends! Details and tickets here.

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Strong Towns Candidate Forum: South Milwaukee School Board, Municipal Judge Candidates Invited

Happy to see Strong Towns South Milwaukee continuing to walk the walk when it comes to making their community a better place … this time by organizing a much-needed local candidate forum.

From the group …

Join us for a non-partisan Candidate Forum where you’ll have the chance to hear directly from School Board and Municipal Judge candidates! 🏫⚖️

📅 Date: Monday, March 3rd
⏰ Time: 5:30 – 6:30 PM
📍 Location: South Milwaukee Public Library – Storyteller Room

This is a fantastic opportunity to engage with local candidates, ask questions, and become more informed about the issues that impact our South Milwaukee community.

Thank you to Strong Towns for organizing this, and to the volunteers who will make this happen. Learn more about Strong Towns on its Facebook page.

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Shelby’s Banned Book Reviews: “Drama”

I am proud to offer this space to my daughter, Shelby, who will be writing series of book reviews of banned books. Get in some good trouble, kid!

From the time it was published in 2012, the graphic novel Drama by Raina Telgemeier underwent heavy criticism. It was #2 on the American Library Association’s most challenged books in 2016, only falling to #3 in 2017. It was also challenged in 2014 for being “sexually explicit.” Its inclusion of LGBTQ characters was labeled as being “confusing” and against “family values.” Despite all of this controversy, Drama was a widely celebrated novel. Some of the book’s achievements include winning the Stonewall Book Award in Children’s and Young Adult Literature in 2013, receiving a nomination for a Harvey Award, and being listed as a Best Book of 2012 by Publishers Weekly, The Washington Post, and School Library Journal.

When I started researching various banned books, I laughed out loud when I saw Drama so high on my list, and then I almost cried. This was one of my favorite books in my younger years, by far my favorite graphic novel. I first read this in late elementary school, maybe 4th grade. My mom and I were and still are frequent visitors of the South Milwaukee Public Library, and it was almost always on display there. 

Drama takes place at Eucalyptus Middle School, where Callie Marin attends, following the story as she navigates through seventh grade and works on designing the set of the production Moon over Mississippi. Callie deals with your average middle school drama, cycling between a few crushes and friendships. Overall, it’s a coming of age story about inclusion and platonic relationships.

Early in the story, Callie meets and befriends a set of twins, Justin and Jesse. While they are both talented actors and singers, Justin likes to shine on stage while Jesse prefers to be out of the spotlight. This reflects a lot in their personalities, and eventually in the ways they come out of the closet. Justin is openly gay, and his coming out is much more casual. In reference to a boy Callie has a crush on, he says, “I’ve known Greg since second grade. He’s always been thickheaded, even if he is cute.” Callie is a bit surprised and flustered, and when she questions his sexuality, he responds with, “Gay? You can say it! I don’t mind.” They embrace on the next page as Callie warmly tells him, “Your secret’s safe with me.”

This heartwarming scene between Callie and Justin normalizes the idea of coming out during your adolescence and shows that being gay is just a small part of Justin, which Callie is completely accepting of. These days, coming out before high school is much more common than you think. According to the Pew Research Center, 24% of gay men and lesbians under age 30 say they first told a friend or family member that they were gay or lesbian before the age of 15. Being a part of the LGBTQ community is far more normalized now than in previous years, and Callie’s instant acceptance of Justin makes her a great role model for kids reading this book. 

Another striking part of this novel is its diverse cast of characters. Not only is there lots of diversity as far as sexualties, but there’s many people of color featured as well. This is especially powerful considering this story is told through art, as there are different skin colors and body sizes on every page. Callie Marin is a white, cisgender, heterosexual girl, but still an amazing ally and advocate through the book. 

I’m no stranger to people from different ethnicities and economic backgrounds. South Milwaukee High School has a minority enrollment rate of 41%, and 51% of students are economically disadvantaged as of 2023, according to state data. Still, I often forget that my reality isn’t the case for many students around the country. In 2022, a U.S. Government and Accountability Office Report found that over 30% of students, around 18.5 million students, attended schools where 75% or more of students were the same race or ethnicity. The milestone Brown v. The Board of Education came 70 years ago, yet we’re still feeling the effects of segregated schools. Telgemeier’s novel combats this, as her diverse set of characters prove to students that school is for anyone, no matter your skin color. 

The end of the novel reveals that Jesse is also gay, which shocks Callie, as she thought he had been interested in her. Jesse overcomes his stage fright by stepping in for the female lead in the production, sharing a chaste kiss with the male lead, West, effectively saving the whole production. This is a huge moment for Jesse, and it leads him to eventually coming out and developing what might be a relationship with West. 

Jesse’s stagefright being compared to his fear of coming out is so captivating. Jesse’s entire development shows the difference between him and Justin. They’re both gay, they just adjust to it differently. This fear of coming out is far too real for many adolescents nowadays. You can’t control who you love, so just imagine how terrifying it is to wonder if you’ll be judged for it. Justin and Jesse posed as my first real exposure to queer characters in the media. I didn’t realize the impact of that until over three years later, when I came out as bisexual. Funnily enough, I was in seventh grade as well, just like Callie. Also, please note that if Jesse and West’s kiss had been between a young girl and boy, no one would have minded.

The final and most prevalent theme in this novel is that of finding a home in theater, specifically stage crew. As someone who’s done stage crew for years, we quite literally slink around the shadows in all black, not getting much acknowledgement. If you can see us doing our jobs, then we’ve done them wrong. Telgemeier outright features the tech crew of Moon over Mississippi, and it makes my theatrical heart so happy! 

Theater as a whole is so important to many young people, and that cannot be overstated. I’m currently involved in my school’s production of Chicago, where I’m playing Mama Morton, and rehearsals are seriously the best part of my day. When you’re on that stage you can just tell how much everyone loves the art form. Telgemeier, who grew up in theater, choir, and stage crew, perfectly portrays how impactful youth theater can be.

The diverse cast and themes of friendship in Drama make for a quick but very sweet read. The LGBTQ characters featured are incredibly realistic and amazing role models. People who have attempted to ban this book are grasping at straws, obviously trying to silence LGBTQ voices by claiming that a harmless novel is too mature. Book bannings at a whole have never been to protect our younger generation. They are intended to harm and silence minoritized communities, and we should stop pretending like there is any other goal in mind. 

Telgemeier herself doesn’t understand why her book is being banned. In response to being on the ALA’s list of most challenged books for so many years in a row, she wrote, “I had a lot of people asking if I wanted to make a statement, but the statement is the book. My viewpoint is it’s better to live in a world where we love and accept each other than one where we don’t.” 

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RIP, Coach: Hall of Fame Coach Gregg Dufek Passes Away at Age 91

Sad news, as Gregg “Coach” Dufek passed away on February 17.

From his obituary …

Playing pick-up games of football with his older brothers begin Gregg’s love of the game. The love of the game continued at St. Florian’s and continued at Milwaukee Boys’ Tech High School where he earned all-conference and all-state awards as a tackle. Gregg’s education continued at Montana State University where he played football for the Bobcats and earned all-Rocky Mountain Conference mention. In 1956 Gregg was a member the of National Championship team earning a trip to Arkansas to play in the Aluminum Bowl.

After graduation, Gregg returned to Milwaukee to begin his teaching and coaching career. At Pulaski, the Rams won two conference championships and finished as runner-up ten times. Gregg was the longest-tenured head coach at one school in the history of the city conference. Gregg was a part of a committee that helped set up the WIAA football playoff system, he served as president of the Milwaukee Coaches’ Association. He received numerous football honors including being inducted into the Montana State Athletic Hall of Fame in 1987. He received the Milwaukee City Conference Football Coach of the Year in 1995 and was selected as an assistant coach of the 1994 Shrine Bowl and co-head coach of the 1996 Shrine Bowl. Gregg was a member of the Wisconsin Football Coaches Association where after retirement he continued to promote the game of football and was inducted into the Wisconsin Football Coaches Hall of Fame in 1999.

In retirement, Gregg enjoyed being a member of the South Milwaukee Lions Organization, traveling, spending time with family, his summer golf leagues, and working in his gardens.

My thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to the entire Dufek familly and everyone who Coach touched in his years with us. His impact is lasting, on and off the field.

Visitation is on Saturday, March 1.

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Welcome to South Milwaukee, Governor! Evers Visits Rawson Elementary

From the South Milwaukee School District

We’re so thankful for his visit and to Mrs. Rozanske for inviting him in to be a Secret Guest Reader for our combined Rawson second-grade classes. The Governor also toured the school, and had a special stop to see our new Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math Lab and talk to students and STEM Teacher Katy Casleton about our innovative STEM program. Mr. Evers also met with Rawson’s Nutrition Services Team and shared his dedication to his proposal to make school lunches free for all Wisconsin students.

Gov. Evers was in town to promote his proposed 2025-26 biennial budget, which makes a significant investment in public educuation across the state. Details here.

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It’s 2025 Spring Primary Election Day. Vote!

Update: Jill Underly and Brittany Kinser got the most votes in South Milwaukee. Local Results

Just one race on the local ballot, as voters across the state narrow list of candidates to two for Wisconsin Department of Public Instruction superintendent.

  • Check out a sample ballot.
  • Polls are open from 7 a.m. to 8 p.m.
  • Polling locations map
  • Not registered? You can do so at the polling place on Election Day. Details here.

And look for local election results on the blog!

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2025 Bucyrus Civic Grants: Up to $25,000 to Benefit the City of South Milwaukee

South Milwaukee is now accepting letters of interest for this year’s Bucyrus Civic Grant Program. Letters of interest are due March 1.

More details here. From the city website

Projects must demonstrate how they benefit the community. Grants may address a community need, improving community support, solving a problem, or enriching the people of South Milwaukee educational, health, or cultural experience. Grants may be for programs that address the workforce skills gap, support economic empowerment initiatives, foster effective public private partnerships, or boost neighborhood revitalization programs.

Funding priorities:

  1. Civic development
  2. Arts and Culture
  3. Health and Human Services
  4. Education
  5. Public benefit/community improvement
  6. Environment

Check out previous winners: 2023 and 2024.

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Shelby’s Banned Book Reviews: “Looking for Alaska”

I am proud to offer this space to my daughter, Shelby, who will be writing series of book reviews of banned books. Get in some good trouble, kid!

John Green’s first novel Looking for Alaska appeared on the American Library Association’s list of the top 10 most challenged books in 2012, 2013, 2015, and 2016, as it was claimed to be sexually explicit. In 2022 alone, this novel was challenged 50 times. This book is often labeled “poronography” by those who wish to ban it, much to the dismay of Green. 

Looking for Alaska follows protagonist Miles “Pudge” Halter, who transfers to a boarding school in Culver Creek in search of his own “Great Perhaps.” At school, Pudge becomes close with his roommate Chip Martin, nicknamed the Colonel, and they form their own type of breakfast club with the only Japanese student, Takumi, Romanian immigrant Lara, and the unpredictable Alaska Young. Throughout the book, Pudge and Alaska explore what it means to escape the labyrinth of life, discovering themes of grief, economic class division, adolescent drinking, and friendship. 

The Colonel acts as the ringleader of their group, planning strategies for all of their pranks. The interesting aspects of his character are shown through his poor background but undying loyalty to his beloved mother. When asked about the best day of his life, Colonel looks towards the future instead, describing his perfect day as the day when he buys his mother a new house so she can move out of their trailer, finally finding a way to thank her for all she’s done for him. When Alaska’s unexpected death comes later in the novel, Colonel despises any students who he believes don’t have the right to grieve because they didn’t know Alaska well enough. He’s the main one who tries to find an explanation for her death, and he heavily resists the idea of her committing suicide when it first comes up.

With economic divides at all time highs in our country, the class divide at Culver Creek feels awfully real, as the richer students obviously have a lot more pull than the poor ones. As a student in an impoverished district, this poor background is a reality for many of my peers. There’s a belief from upper class people that being poor is horrendously sad and debilitating, but Colonel is the perfect example of making the best out of your situation. Throughout the book, Colonel proves that your background does not have to define you, which is a thoughtful sentiment that still holds true today, two decades after the book is set.

This book has been most often challenged for its “pornography,” though, as someone who just finished the book, its intimate scenes are anything but. There’s only one real sex scene in the novel, and it’s described by John Green as “awkward, unfun, disastrous, and wholly unerotic.” This is followed directly by a scene with no physical intimacy but more raw emotion than we’ve seen so far. Green uses this contrast to actually advise against teenage physical intimacy, as it ends up feeling rather emotionless. He instead points out that you can have lovely tender moments without skin on skin contact. 

According to the CDC, over half of U.S. teens have had sexual intercourse by age 18 in the year 2017. Underage sex is something that has always existed, and the numbers are only rising. One of the downfalls to our increasingly digital world is the fact that access to pornography is at the fingerprints of young adults. Instead of shaming and degrading the idea of underage sex, we should focus more on increased access to inclusive sex education. It’s proven that comprehensive sex education programs actually reduce the rates of sexual activity as a whole. In Looking for Alaska, Green uses non arousing almost medical terminology in any intimate scenes, treating these parts of the novel as a form of sex ed. Green, along with many other YA authors, argues that books that include teen romance and intimacy should not be labeled as pornography.

When Alaska decides to drive drunk and ultimately dies because of it, it’s arguably the most impactful moment of the book. After the accident, Pudge grapples with the fact that he might’ve enabled this by letting Alaska get behind the wheel, feeling a tremendous amount of guilt in the midst of his grieving process. Colonel and Takumi blame themselves as well. It’s pointed out later that this accident may have instead been suicide, but it’s eventually left up to the reader to decide.

This is the part of the book that struck me the most, as I noticed the warning signs written in the pages but I couldn’t do anything about it. That feeling of complete helplessness is probably similar to how Pudge and the others felt when they received the news of Alaska’s tragic death. As stated by the Childhood Hospital of Philadelphia, 19% of alcohol-impaired drivers involved in fatal car crashes were between 15 and 20 years old in the year 2022. Driving under the influence of alcohol or maurijana isn’t nearly as rare as it should be for teens. 

There’s a thought that things like that don’t happen in South Milwaukee, but I can strongly say that I know of far too many cases of underage driving under the influence in the past year alone. I’ve even had to deal with some of these issues firsthand.  After reading this, I’m even more inclined to raise my voice when one of my peers may want to drive under the influence. What happened to Alaska is the worst case scenario, but it’s a scenario that happens all too often. Whether Alaska really was too drunk to notice her mistake or she drove into the cop cruiser on purpose, she likely wouldn’t have done the same thing sober. Censoring this cautionary tale of drinking and driving is a disservice to anyone my age, as fatalities are far more common if we aren’t educated on the dangers of driving under the influence. 

This novel is also one that heavily questions the idea of religion and the afterlife. It’s a book that criticizes Buddishm, Christianity, and atheism alike, not picking a side but instead stating that all can be true. Just before Alaska’s death, Pudge explores the idea of the afterlife for himself. “People, I thought, wanted security. They couldn’t bear the idea of death being a big black nothing, couldn’t bear the thought of their loved ones not existing, and couldn’t even imagine themselves not existing. I finally decided that people believed in an afterlife because they couldn’t bear not to.” I understand why Christian Conservatives choose to challenge this book in particular, since it happens to criticize the very religion they follow.

As Alaska Young grapples with her obvious mental illness and childhood trauma, she asks a question that I feel the need to ask my friends on occasion: “Don’t you know who you love, Pudge? You love the girl who makes you laugh and shows you porn and drinks wine with you. You don’t love the crazy, sullen bitch.” I think it’s unfortunate how true this is for myself and so many others. I often wonder if people would love me the same if I was always in the midst of an anxious episode, if I wasn’t kind and upbeat all the time. 

Before this, she shows a strong aversion to wanting to go home for the holidays. “I’m scared of ghosts, Pudge. And home is full of them.” Alaska’s fear of going home is due to her trauma around her mother dying in front of her and her father blaming her for it. This self hatred is an eventual cause for her death, whether it was suicide or accidental. When Alaska is asked about her favorite day ever, she recalls the day before her mothers death, when they went to the zoo together. Alaska’s trauma and mental illness is what makes her so relatable to readers.

Most YA books published around 2005 were sci-fi and fantasy, with unrelatable characters, which is what makes Looking for Alaska all the more powerful. John Green weaves his story with complex friendships, class division, teen intimacy, and driving under the influence all in one. When describing why he wrote the book, Green says, “I wanted to write about sexuality and substance abuse because it felt true to the characters. When you’re a teenager, you’re doing all kinds of important things for the first time, and in writing Alaska I wanted to deromanticize some of those firsts.” 

Green’s debut novel is a powerful tale that shows a group of teenagers constantly seeking what makes them feel alive, giving up their safety in order to do so. I believe that Pudge’s final essay sums this up perfectly. “Those awful things are survivable, because we are as indestructible as we believe ourselves to be. When adults say, “Teenagers think they are invincible” with that sly, stupid smile on their faces, they don’t know how right they are. We need never be hopeless, because we can never be irreparably broken. We think that we are invincible because we are. We cannot be born, and we cannot die. Like all energy, we can only change shapes and sizes and manifestations. They forget that when they get old. They get scared of losing and failing. But that part of us greater than the sum of our parts cannot begin and cannot end, and so it cannot fail.”

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Updated: What’s Next for the Mill Pond? A February 19 Info Meeting and, Hopefully, Leadership

UPDATED: Meeting has been rescheduled to February 19 due to weather.

Options for the future of the Mill Pond are coming in clearer focus as part of a planning effort underway by the Milwaukee County Parks Department.

I’m happy to see it, and it’s an overdue next step of the Oak Creek Watershed Restoration Plan, which was completed in 2021. What’s needed next is leadership to bring this plan to life, to take the results of this current process (and years of work before it) and make it real.

County Executive Crowley, Supervisor Shea, Mayor Shelenske, Mayor Bukiewicz, MMSD, all of you, and others: Please lead to clean up and revitalize the Oak Creek Watershed.

The plan was a great start, and I was proud to connect the varied and complex constituencies to put the effort in motion. It delivered something that was desperately missing in the decades of debate about the Mill Pond and Oak Creek Watershed — a science-based, community-informed roadmap for the watershed as a whole, not just the Mill Pond.

Local leaders: We now look to you. Don’t let it sit on a shelf!

Please work together to restore this precious resource and iconic part of our region. If not, little will change, and we will make it the next generation’s problem. Follow the lead of what’s happening on waterways across the region, and don’t let Oak Creek be left behind.

Start with this principle: The watershed is not the county’s problem, not South Milwaukee’s (or any single community’s) problem, not MMSD’s problem. It is our problem, our opportunity.

Let’s get this right, together.

Mill Pond Planning

Details on the planning project here

The original scope of the project included planning, design, and construction of repairs to the Mill Pond dam and drain structure. Required improvements include re-establishing a functioning drainage structure and piping system to enable draining the Mill Pond impoundment. Other requirements of the Wisconsin Department of Natural Resources (WDNR) inspection, such as vegetation removal and establishing a survey benchmark have been completed.

In December 2021, the Southeastern Wisconsin Regional Planning Commission (SEWRPC) released its Restoration Plan for the Oak Creek Watershed report. As part of this report, SEWRPC presented several alternatives for the future of Mill Pond and the Mill Pond Dam. To better evaluate these alternatives and prior to any work on the dam structure, an investigation was performed to characterize the sediments within Mill Pond. Results of the sampling indicated that sediments were impacted, and if removed or dredged from Mill Pond would require proper disposal offsite. Permitting would also be required for any dewatering activities. Please see the alternatives that were presented to the County’s Committee on Parks and Culture as part of an informational report. PowerPoint Presentation.

On December 3, 2024 from 4 – 6 pm, a public open house at Wil-o-way Grant was held. Nearly 100 neighbors visited to review the following boards, ask questions of the staff, and leave written comments.

What’s Next

From the Milwaukee County Parks Department …

In December 2021, the Southeastern Wisconsin Regional Planning Commission (SEWRPC) released its Restoration Plan for the Oak Creek Watershed report. As part of this report, SEWRPC presented several alternatives for the future of Mill Pond and the Mill Pond Dam. With public input, Parks has narrowed these alternatives down. The next steps for Parks involve exploring funding opportunities to pursue one of the options for Mill Pond and the dam. Parks invites you to attend a Public Information Meeting to learn more about the proposed alternatives that remain, ask questions and provide feedback. The meeting will be held as an open house, with staff on hand to answer questions and discuss alternatives.

Mill Pond Public Information Meeting

Wednesday, February 19th

4-6 PM Open House

Grant Park Clubhouse, 100 Hawthorne Ave, South Milwaukee, WI 53172

The options follow and are detailed in this JSOnline story.

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Update From Alderman Tim: February 7, 2025

South Milwaukee Alderman Tim Backes has graciously volunteered to write regular updates for the blog.

You can see his latest installment here. In this writing, Tim shares some insights on Tri-City Plaza, economic develeopment activity, and video recording of council meetings.

Thanks, Tim, for bringing this idea to the blog! I am always looking for content to further our mission of keeping South Milwaukeeans informed on key issues, while also providing important context and depth where possible. It is why I started this blog as an alderman in 2009, and why I continue it today.

See all of Alderman Tim’s updates here.

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February Events Update: Library Hosts Black History Month Celebration on Saturday

Find the most comprehensive information on South Milwaukee events on my blog’s Events page. Did I miss something? Email me at erikbrooks32@gmail.com.

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Wisconsin DPI Superintendent Primary Election: In-Person Absentee Voting Available Through Friday, February 14

Just one race is on the ballot for the spring 2025 primary election — a race for State Superintendent of Public Instruction. In-person absentee voting is available at City Hall now through Friday, February 14, and primary Election Day is Tuesday, February 18.

Spring Election Day is Tuesday, April 1. Vote!

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Tickets On Sale! Celebrate South Milwaukee Student Music at Jazz & More on April 15 at the Bucyrus Club

All are welcome at this special gala event at the Bucyrus Club. Join us! More details here.

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Shock, Awe, and Fear

This weekend, it was about instigating a trade war … and handing over payment systems, our personal data, and the power to reshape our goverment to the world’s richest man. It was about dismantling an agency in USAID that exists to help those most in need across the globe.

Today it’s about plans to eliminate the Department of Education.

Before that, in just the first two weeks of the Trump presidency, it was the pardoning hundreds of people convicted of beating cops … unilaterally freezing federal funding and foreign aid … ordering the end to birthright citizenship … the start of mass deportation raids, with little regard to sweeping up non-criminals … rolling back LGBTQ protections … threatening to withhold funding from local schools if teaching doesn’t align with conservative principles … removing security protection from perceived enemies … encouraging federal workers to quit their jobs en masse, while firing others who he considers a threat … pledging to condition federal disaster aid on political outcomes … blaming DEI and past administrations for the Washington D.C. air disaster. And much more.

This projectile vomiting of executive branch action makes me wistful for the good old days when we just wanted to seize Greenland and take back the Panama Canal — maybe by force.

MAGA 2.0 scares the hell out of me, and it should scare you too. But that’s the point, right? A shock and awe strategy like this is meant to cause chaos and stoke fear.

Fear of being deported. Fear of losing your job. Fear of people that don’t look like us. Fear of discrimination, or worse, in diverse communities. Fear of not getting emergency aid when you just lost your home in a wildfire. Fear of higher prices sure to come with tariffs. Fear of not receiving the federal funding you and your agency rely on to educate our kids, slow the spread of disease, feed the hungry, and care for the elderly and veterans. Fear of your personal information being misused by Elon Musk in the name of “government efficiency.” For our allies, fear of us not being there when they need us most.

Fear has defined these first couple weeks of the Trump presidency. And that’s just how he wants it.

Some would call this strategy courageous and bold, an example of “promises made, promises kept” and the result of a mandate handed down in November. “Winning!” they call it.

I call it reckless, irresponsible, and dangerous — a convenient forgetting of the fact that Trump won the popular vote by 1.5%, and more than half of America didn’t even vote for him.

Leadership by threats and intimidation is not leadership at all. It is the opposite.

Good leaders unite, not divide. They inspire, encourage, and compassionately care for others, starting with the most vulnerable. They act strategically. They embrace diverse viewpoints, surrounding themselves not with loyalists but with smart, experienced people willing to challenge preconceived ideas — and then listen to them. They accept accountability, not blame others. They find strength in working together to solve problems, not isolate. They calm fears, not stoke them.

They understand winning is not the “Art of the Deal” or an epiode of the “The Apprentice.” They know winning is not transactional — not a series of disjointed moves and countermoves to satisfy a mandate that never existed. It not a short-term result to score a political talking point, like a 30-day pause in a stupid trade war that we started because we could — long-term implications with our closest allies be damned. It is not isolationism. It is not dismantling the workings of goverment in days without regard for the real damage being inflicted and without a real plan for what’s next.

Which brings me to “what’s next?”

I, like many, have struggled with how to respond to this, which is exactly how President Trump wants it with this “flood the zone” approach to governing.

I turn back to what I wrote after the November election, to my daughter.

First, we accept the results of the election.

Start there – at a place too many never got to the last time we did this. Donald Trump won. You may not like it, but win or lose, you accept the results. That’s what we do as American citizens. You don’t try to undo the results, lie about them, and stand by while others use violence to invalidate them. 

That’s life lesson #1: Lose the right way.

Check. There was a peaceful transition of power some (since pardoned) tried to prevent 2021.

Then you live your life. You get up, go to school, go to work, go to theater and choir rehearsal. You keep working hard in the classroom. You hang out with your friends and family. You keep volunteering. You keep helping others. You keep being a 16-year-old girl who is so much more than one political outcome. 

Check. The sun continues to rise, and my daughter continues to shine. She’s also 17 now.

You also keep fighting for what you believe in. Work for positive change, resisting the urge to go low. Let others spew hate and divide. You love and unite. 

Stand up for LGBTQ+ rights, a woman’s right to choose, common sense gun control, immigrants, and the countless other issues you are so passionate about. Do your part to lift up the most vulnerable among us. Resist those bent on doing otherwise … while always remembering, despite Tuesday’s results, how you act, what you say and how you say it, matters. I will always believe that. Do good, embrace hope, and get to work. Start with your family, your school, and in your community. Then go bigger.

Check. Shelby continues to be a passionate advocate for what’s right — and is now sharing her perspective on this blog through the “Shelby’s Banned Book Club” series. Part 1 — “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” — ran last week. Part 2 runs later this week.

We can join her in making a difference. I suggest it starts locally. Speak up using whatver platform you have. It doesn’t have to be a website or social media; in fact, I’d suggest it not be on social media these days. A conversation over coffee can help. Contact your elected officials, from your alderman to your president. Attend a government meeting and speak. Vote. Volunteer your time or financially support an organization helping those most impacted by what’s happening in Washington D.C. right now.

Be there for someone who is scared. It’s a start.

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Mayor Chet: 1920-2025

South Milwaukee lost a great man over the weekend.

Chester Grobschmidt, mayor for 28 years, has passed away at the age of 104.

He leaves a lasting legacy on this city, one that will live on for generations, and I thank him for his service to this city and this country. His love of South Milwaukee and passion for making this city a better place was very much evident even in the years later in life when I came to know him.

Rest in peace, Mayor Chet.

From the 2020 proclamation we delivered to Chet in 2020, as he turned 100 …

WHEREAS, Chester W. Grobschmidt was born June 8, 1920, one of five children of John and Ann Grobschmidt. The family moved to South Milwaukee in 1926. Chet attended St. Mary’s Grade School and graduated from South Milwaukee High School in 1938; and

WHEREAS, in 1938 Chet got his first job pedaling the Shopping News. Four years later, Chet egan his 40-year career at Bucyrus Erie, retiring in 1983. Chet served in the Navy during World War II from 1942-46 in New Guinea (Admiralty Islands), and was discharged with the rank of Second Class Metalsmith. Chet was celebrated for his service by participating in an Honor Flight to Washington D.C.; and

WHEREAS, in January, 1948, during the “Blizzard of ‘48”, Chet married Leone Repech and they had two children, Richard and Karen. Leone passed away in 1982 after 34 years of marriage. In 1992, Chet married Lorraine Schweitzer and expanded his family with four stepchildren: Sharon, Patsy, Jim and Jon. Chet and Lorraine were married for 24 years until her death in 2016; and

WHEREAS, Chet has a long legacy of service to his community. He served as Alderperson for the Fourth District for nine years. In 1966, Chet was elected Mayor of the City of South Milwaukee and served the city in that capacity for 28 years, retiring in 1994. During his time as Mayor, Chet provided strong leadership for the city during a time of significant change. This list of course is long, a few highlights are in 1982, City Hall moved to its current location at the former Parkway Elementary School on 15th Avenue, and the mayor led efforts to fund and open the South Milwaukee Senior Center, which was renamed the Chester W. Grobschmidt Senior Center in 1996. The new fire station was dedicated in 1981, and Chet was instrumental in bringing the Med-10 Unit to the city which began service in 1988. He also began the recycling program and kept local control over the South Milwaukee Sewage Treatment Plant; and

WHEREAS, Mayor Chet’s dedication to the city and its employees was ever present, and it didn’t end when he left office. Chet was a strong advocate for the beautification of the downtown area. An avid gardener, he prized his dahlias and would bring some to City Hall every year for the employees to enjoy. He was a member of multiple veterans organizations, involved with the War Memorial and served as president of the Historical Society.

NOW, THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED, that I, Mayor Erik Brooks and the Common Council of the City of South Milwaukee do hereby declare June 8, 2020, as “Mayor Chet Day” in the City of South Milwaukee in celebration of his 100th birthday, wish Chet well as we recognize this milestone, and thank him for his lifetime of dedicated service to the city.

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